Let's Talk About It: Conversational Pointers that could save lives

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Our Words have an Impact

It is interesting that in a world where we have the capability to post anything at any time, many people still think that their words don't matter, but this couldn't be farther from the truth. Our voices are so incredibly powerful that we literally have the ability to start movements with them. Some of the more famous examples of people using their voices to enact change include Martin Luther King and his "I have a Dream Speech" and in 2018 the "Me Too" movement. Knowing that we have everything we need to create change living right inside of us makes it even more important to understand how conversations about domestic violence can save lives. Read below for some do and don't tips when it comes to having a discussion about domestic violence with those you think may be in an abusive relationship.

 Do
  • Offer your support to victims of domestic violence
  • Let the person know that you are not there to judge them
  • Let the person know they are not alone
  • Provide resources to local agencies that can help
  • Let the person know you are worried about their safety
  • Inform them that domestic violence is serious
  • Encourage the person to develop a safety plan (click the hyperlink to be brought to a page that defines a safety plan)

Dont
  • Force someone who isn't ready to talk about their situation
  • Pressure someone to make a decision make a decision they aren't comfortable with as this can put them in even more danger

Sources: 

https://www.purplepurse.com/get-involved/how-to-talk-to-a-victim.aspx
https://www.thehotline.org/help/help-for-friends-and-family/

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